Stand!

In a bid to fit into the society we find ourselves in, we realise that women live their entire lives for the men and children. This is not a wrong thing but the issue comes when you lose yourself while doing that. You're a woman, yes, but that doesn't make you dependent. You're a woman, yes, but you're also a being that has a personal life to live.
Ask many ladies today, all they want to do is get married after school(for those who even go), manage that small job and bear children. Life is beyond that. That's why we see our young ladies go into relationships aimlessly because of the 'i need a man' ideology. God created you a help. Fine. You can't give' what you don't have.
No strong spiritual stand
No ambition, dream
No career
No fashion sense
No kitchen and table etiquette
No manners
     All these things add up to make you the woman of every mans dream. It shows forth the potential God has placed in you. You go beyond living for your husband and children. Build yourself, live for you first. Until you realise your stand as a being, you keep losing relevance even in marriage.
Even the proverbs 31 woman was industrious, she wasn't the kind of wife that the husband couldn't seek advice from, in fact, she made him respected. She made clothes for herself(self adornment), she's independent. She's wise. Take cue from her.

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